1. Have sex in different places.
2. Try various positions.
3. Incorporate sensual massage into your lovemaking session.
4. Introduce sex toys into the bedroom.
5. Talk dirty to each other during foreplay and intercourse.
6. Experiment with different techniques, such as edging or tantric sex techniques.
7. Blindfold each other and take turns giving and receiving pleasure without sight as a guide.
8. Use food to tantalize your taste buds and enhance arousal during foreplay or intercourse.
9. Give mutual masturbation a try, allowing you both to experience pleasure up close and personal for one another’s enjoyment simultaneously .
10. Take shower together for an intimate experience with added sensations from the water and soap suds running over each other’s body .
11 . Read erotic stories to each other before or during lovemaking sessions for added stimulation .
12 . Participate in roleplay for a fun way to explore fantasies with your partner .
13 . Watch adult films together to get inspired and discover new ideas that may lead you both down some tantalizing paths of exploration .
What are the creative sex techniques? When couples have been together for a long time, the same boring love scenes will make people lose interest in sex. So what are the creative sex techniques? Here are some tips for men and women to help spice up your sex life.
1. Creative Sex Techniques:
a) Talking and role playing – Talk to your partner about fantasies or role-play different characters in the bedroom.
b) Using props – Props such as blindfolds, feather ticklers and sex games can add a fun element to your sexual encounters.
c) Taking turns – Take turns initiating sex and explore new ways of pleasing each other.
d) Trying new positions – Experimenting with different positions may help you discover pleasure spots that you didn’t know existed.
e) Learning techniques from books and videos – Reading books or watching videos on different sexual techniques can help spice up your sex life.
Unchanging sexual techniques make the married life dull and unremarkable, while using some skills can make love more harmonious and the marital life more wonderful. Here are some creative sexual techniques that can help you open up new ideas for your passion.
Create a new and fresh atmosphere for making love.
If you want to change the environment in your home and bring a fresh feeling to sex, then don’t rush into it, after all time is yours. You can frequently rearrange your bedroom (including colors – according to color science, pink and orange can increase one’s sexual interest but don’t be too strict about it), play soft music, wear different lingerie, use different brands of perfume etc.
Have a date before sexual intercourse.
Elderly couples often get used to each other’s presence and forget the joys of dating. Over time, even making love has become a routine affair. To change this situation, try to regain the feeling of blushing and palpitations when in love. Dating can help you, at least before having planned sex life, to have a romantic date first. In addition, sexual fantasy can be done in advance, which is an important factor to arouse and enhance excitement.
Women should learn to take the initiative.
Although men like to be macho and take the initiative, constantly allowing him to do so will affect his interest. Since it is a matter between the two of you, there is no need for him to always be the one initiating conflict: instead, you can also seize the opportunity and take the initiative! Moreover, men don’t oppose women taking the initiative occasionally; rather, it can spur them on and make sex even more passionate.
Open new ideas for lovemaking spots.
Without a doubt, the bed in the bedroom is the most used place, but why not abandon it intentionally sometimes? The floor and sofa in the living room, even the kitchen in your own space; you can turn them into a battlefield and make him unexpected and refreshing. Avoiding the bedroom. Making love in different places such as kitchen counter and living room sofa will help break routines. If you have money and time, go to a romantic hotel for a night, which will surely leave you with very good memories.
Why not say some crazy things at the pillow side?
Women can also say some crazy words by the pillow. Of course, you should have confidence that in his eyes you’re a lively woman instead of an old-fashioned nag. Words can help you in this regard. For example, you can say: I love you, I want, You’re so great… They don’t just mean to flatter, they contain your evaluation and expectation.
Couples should be open and honest with each other.
A perfect life needs to be based on mutual communication and exchange between husband and wife. What is your trouble? What effect do you want to achieve? What requirements do you have for him, etc.? You can say all of these without having to hide them because of shyness. In a married couple, healthy sex is always legitimate and beneficial.
We give each other body massages.
Before having sexual intercourse, body massage can help relax and excite the body. During massage, one can use erotic tools, not only for relaxation but also to induce and aid in sexual arousal. For example, LIV2 from LELO is a classic and elegant medium-sized vibrator with a very delicate touch, its shape is also smooth and ergonomically designed to bring unlimited pleasure and comfort during massage.
It takes only 8 minutes for a woman to reach climax multiple times.
It is said that it takes a woman a long time to reach orgasm. Do you think half an hour of foreplay is all it takes? That’s only because you don’t know the right bedroom skills. With the right skill set, you can make your partner reach orgasm in just 15 minutes! Don’t believe me? Let’s count down the 15 minutes and see how to get her there.
Count down 15 minutes, kiss for 3 minutes.
In 15 minutes, kiss for at least 3 minutes. Studies have found that kissing reduces the level of the stress hormone cortisol. When you kiss, tilt your head to the right; German scientists have discovered that this makes you look more caring towards her, causing her body to fill with chemicals of progressive desire, building trust and encouraging her to come faster.
According to a survey of 50,000 women, 96% of them chose kissing neck as the best warm-up. Don’t just kiss her lips. Occasional sliding your lips from her neck will not make her neck lose its sensitivity. Every time you kiss her neck, take off his shirt. This not only saves you 15 minutes of time, but also helps build body confidence.
10. Count down 12 minutes, tease for 2 minutes.
Now she is almost completely naked, but still wearing one or two pieces of underwear. Caress and kiss her through the underwear, rather than directly go for it, let her full of expectation for what’s about to happen, instead of stimulating her bluntly. Make her feel like this moment will never end, then take off her underwear and start caressing her intimate area.
Countdown 10 minutes, lick the female genitalia for 3 minutes.
Licking the vulva is the most reliable and quickest way to get 80% of women to climax. He said, take one hand and lift her vulva up, then lick around its base. With the other hand place your finger on her clitoris, which is just below where the vagina opens. When you feel her contract, you know you’re in the right spot.
Countdown 7 minutes and enter/exit in 4 minutes.
Although foreplay is important to a woman’s climax, climax isn’t only about foreplay. The stickiness of the climax and the duration of the foreplay are more important than the duration of the main act. After entering, four minutes at an even pace will bring her to a climax. This is now the optimal time for her to shake with both legs in order to reach a climax. To do this, start in classic missionary position and pull backward so that your penis base is right on her clitoris. Support yourself with your feet on the bed frame, then move your penis forward and backward without directly entering.
Your penis softly rubbed against her clitoris, which was comfortable for her and gave you the option of a controlled slow pulsing sensation to burden the sensory cortex.
Count down 3 minutes, keep the speed and intensity of in and out.
In the last three minutes, all you need to do is sustain it; don’t try too many styles. Although different sex techniques can get pleasure, it doesn’t mean more variations are better during one time sex, especially when she is near climax; just keep sustaining it. When you start something and she responds positively, continue doing the same thing with the same speed and intensity and that will bring her to the peak of orgasm.
Second, Comfortable Sex Positions
Prone lying face up.
This sex position and the traditional man-on-top have one thing in common: it’s easy for the man to enter. It’s what we call the double overlap. The specific procedure is that the man lies down and the woman spreads her legs, lying face up on top of him. At this time, grasp her thighs and you can control the depth, rhythm and angle of penetration relatively freely. Tip: When using wild moments in this position, it is easy for her to lose balance, so be sure to hold on to her legs tightly.
Kneeling on Both Knees
This sexual position is most commonly used in pornographic movies, however it does not allow for communication between the two people, which can make the woman feel distant. To spice things up, you can try some “dirty talk” or gently pull her hair, or use LIV2 to stimulate her buttocks appropriately. The specific technique is for the female to kneel on both knees with her hands on the ground, while you enter from behind. This position allows for a deep penetration but also gives you and your partner an experience of animalistic and wild sex.
Third, Take Good Care of Sexual Health
Before sexual intercourse, both parties should urinate, clean their faces, hands and vulvas. After sexual intercourse, it is beneficial for women to urinate to reduce bladder stimulation symptoms, and urine can flush the urethral opening to prevent retrograde infection.
2. Unprotected sexual intercourse may lead to urethritis, cystitis, pyelonephritis or prostatitis in either men or women; vaginitis, endometritis and pelvic inflammation should be avoided.
Sexual activity is closely related to disease. Various diseases of the internal and external systems, or other systems, can cause sexual dysfunction such as decreased libido, erectile dysfunction, impotence and orgasmic disorder. Sexual activity can also cause urinary system infection or aggravate other systemic diseases, even death.
Sexual activity requires a lot of physical strength, with increased respiration, heart rate, blood pressure and muscle tension. An increase in metabolism will inevitably increase the burden on the lungs and heart. People with atherosclerosis, myocardial ischemia and angina during the onset period should abstain from sexual activity. Before engaging in sexual activity during stable periods of illness, nitroglycerin or Mindar should be used for prevention of angina attacks. Those with a history of myocardial infarction should restrain from sex to prevent sudden death due to intercourse. Hypertensive patients should avoid excessive sexual activity to prevent myocardial infarction, cerebrovascular accident and heart failure.
5. Sexually transmitted diseases have a close relationship with sexual activities. During the acute period, treatment should be actively taken, sexual activity should be controlled, and condoms should be used when necessary to prevent transmission between partners.