1. Get to Know Your Body: Take some time to explore your body and figure out what feels good. Spend time practicing different kinds of touch and explore the variety of sensations available.
2. Talk Openly with Your Partner: Communication is key for achieving orgasm, so talk to your partner about what feels good for you. Share any fantasies or desires with them, as well as any possible triggers that could make it more pleasurable.
3. Use Toys and Tools: Sex toys can be great tools for exploring pleasure in a whole new way. Find out what kind of toys you or your partner enjoy most and see how they can add something extra to your sexual experience.
4. Experiment with Positions and Techniques: Trying different positions and techniques can help you reach orgasm more easily or increase the intensity when you do get there. Experimenting will help you discover what works best for both partners, giving you a better chance at experiencing more intense orgasms together.
5. Relax and Enjoy Yourself: Last but not least, the best way to get the most out of your orgasms is to just relax and enjoy yourself! Don’t worry too much about reaching orgasm—just focus on pleasure instead!
There are so many questions and unknowns about climaxes that The Indian Times recently compiled 20 must-know facts about enjoying climax. Study them together with your partner!
Age is not an issue. Many people worry that as they get older, their libido will decrease and they won’t be able to climax. In fact, as you age, sex can get even better, and climaxes won’t disappear.
2. Wearing a condom does not affect climax and there is no need to worry about early ejaculation caused by wearing one.
Multiple orgasms are not a dream. Many women can experience multiple orgasms in one sexual encounter.
Distraction is the “roadblock” to climax. To enjoy more climax, one must be free of distractions during sexual intercourse.
5. The nipples are the “switch” of climax. In sexual intercourse, gently caressing your wife’s nipples is an excellent way to help her reach orgasm.
Research has found that sharing some “dirty jokes” or watching some erotic films between couples is a good foreplay, which can help them enjoy sexual climax better.
7. Orgasm can relieve pain. Entering a state of sexual arousal can effectively relieve common pains such as headaches, surgical pain and joint pain. The oxytocin released during orgasm also helps to alleviate pain and improve mood.
Research has found that women can feign orgasm during the sexual act.
High pressure can impede orgasm. Stress can easily lead to marital dissatisfaction in sexual activity. Practicing yoga or meditation, taking time to relax the body and mind, can help improve sexual life, and enjoy orgasm better.
The average female orgasm lasts 6 to 10 seconds, sometimes even up to 20 seconds.
The difference between real and false orgasm is obvious. According to an article in the American magazine “Big City” on sexuality, before a woman really reaches orgasm, her clitoris contracts, her heartbeat quickens, her pupils dilate, her vaginal muscles spasm, her feet arch up and her nipples become erect.
Exercising can be beneficial to high arousal. Some women may experience a high during the process of exercising, which researchers call “coregasm” due to its association with core muscle group training such as climbing, cycling and weightlifting.
The length of time needed to reach orgasm varies from person to person, but according to a new study published by Dr. Craig S. Niederberger, an expert in sexology in the USA’s “Huffington Post”, the average time for men from penetration to ejaculation (orgasm) is approximately 7 minutes.
14.Orgasm has diversity. The most common one for women is the “clitoral orgasm” achieved through stimulation of the clitoris. In addition, there can be “vaginal orgasm” and climax attained by stimulating nipples, etc.
15. Foreplay is great; orgasm is wonderful. During the process of sexual intercourse, foreplay such as caressing and kissing help to increase the blood flow of sexual organs, preparing fully for sexual intercourse so that orgasm can be achieved in a smooth manner.
16. Masturbation can also achieve climax. Regardless of gender, masturbation is considered the simplest way to experience a high.
17. The sexual position affects the orgasm. For example, the rear-entry position can better stimulate the female G-spot and make it easier to achieve “vaginal orgasm”.
Understand the G-spot, the stronger the climax. Every woman’s G-spot is different, so identifying the G-spot location plays an essential role in achieving orgasm.
Dr. Niederberger stated that, just like women, men also have a G spot – a small, highly sensitive area located underneath the penis head.
Not everyone can reach climax. Some people cannot generate climax regardless of any stimulation, which is called “anorgasmia” or “anejaculation”. Health issues and nerve stimulation problems may lead to inability to reach sexual climax.