1. Make sure both you and your partner are comfortable with the position.
2. Make sure your feet are firmly placed on the floor, as this will help to support your weight.
3. If necessary, use a wall or other stable object to help with balance and provide extra support.
4. Hold onto each other tightly to keep from slipping or falling over.
5. Move slowly and carefully at first until you get used to the standing position, then experiment with different movements as desired.
Since ancient times, making love has been described as “bedmate”. Bed is the traditional “holy land” for us to make love. When we think of making love, we think of the bedroom and when we think of the room, we think of the bed and then the intense “struggle” between men and women on a big bed. Sometimes when you see a bed, you might think about what happened above. But if you always make love in bed, will it feel lack of freshness after a while? If that is so, why don’t we leave the bed and let us stand up to make love?
What I mean here by standing up to make love is doing it without any help from objects such as tables or chairs. There are mainly two ways:
The front-facing way: When adopting this way, the man can hold the woman’s waist and let her float with her vagina facing his penis and then mainly let him insert it. When using this method, because the man has to use a lot of strength to hold the woman while making love, both his psychology and strength have to be concentrated. If the woman is too heavy at this time, the man needs more strength and more attention on how to hold her firmly. For men, inserting their penis during sex requires a high degree of attention.
The distraction of attention will lead to a weakening of control over the process of making love; in serious cases even an erection may become soft and unable to continue making love. Therefore, when using this way of making love, relative to men women must be delicate otherwise men may be distracted or clumsily causing an unsuccessful sexual experience.
When adopting this way there may be difficulty inserting penis into vagina when man holds onto woman’s waist; therefore best insert before standing up i.e before leaving bed whilst still in bedroom – man positions penis into vagina then they integrate together off bed standing up while making love – man holding onto women’s waist whilst woman holds onto mans neck – kissing each other with words motivating man throughout experience (e.g telling him he’s doing well). However due whole body weight being carried by male partner can be quite demanding – physically tiring for male partner too